Wednesday 12 November 2014

EMBASAVA HOOLIGANS AND SEXUAL GENDER BASED VIOLENCE



Today I will take my time to pen a serious article based on an ugly incidence that happened this week. An incidence that should not have happened at least not within the magnitude it did if the Sexual Offences Act of 2006, The penal code and the constitution of Kenya are observed and implemented as they should be.

I know most of you do not consider yourselves perpetrators of sexual Gender Based Violence. That is something kina Maish. Omosh and Kama in Mukuru slums do, right? Well you are wrong and I will be telling you why you could be a sexual predator shortly.

So a woman dresses in a manner that you and your patriarchal thinking do not consider appropriate you opt to strip her? How has that solved the problem. If she was allegedly seducing you and making you hot, has that changed now that she is nude? Is your body that is obviously your god that you are born to serve and fulfill now cool? What about the women who are assaulted daily by the repugnant sight of sagging trousers that mostly unveil very dirty innerwear, Should we also act savagely and undress the unsightly dressed men? As a matter of fact why are you not undressing these disgustingly dressed boys? Why pick on a woman?  I assume her humiliation made you feel complete and confident in your in your manhood, you went back home (if you have any) roaring like a lion, the king of the jungle after a hard day’s work. You were welcomed to a sumptuous meal, a glass of wine and a good massage for a day well spent right? keep stripping women, the drawers of the sexual offences Act had you in mind.

As if that is not enough, somebody in the crowd had time to take a video of the whole travesty. Why oh why did you feel the need to upload the video on the internet, why? Do you think you are any different from the assaulters? How that phone was not even snatched, where are pick-pockets when we need them?

Then comes the third group, those sharing and re-sharing the video as they express their utter disgust and mortification with what the Embassava touts did. What is the difference between you and those criminals? Why are you opting to strip the poor girl over and over again? The most horrific thing would be if a river road guy quickly made a video and started peddling it as is wont to happen with such sensational occurrences. Mercifully they seem to be very sensible on this one.

The Constitution of Kenya, the supreme Law of this Land at article 25 (a) guarantees us of freedom from torture and cruel, inhuman or degrading treatment .The Embassava touts, the cameraman and the sharers of the video have jointly subjected this girl to cruel, inhuman and degrading treatment. Those shouting on top of their voices about rights having limitations, it would interest you to know that this is one freedom that may not be limited. It does not matter whether women or men are dressed ‘badly’ you may not infringe on their rights.

I am certain without a doubt that three quarters of the perpetrators of this heinous act braved the hot sun in the referendum to vote yes to a new constitution. Did people read what they were binding themselves to? Article 28 declares that every person has inherent dignity and the right to have that dignity respected and protected. So why did we decide to trample on her right to her God given dignity, something she was born with. Who gave us that right?

This document that we queued for hours in the scorching sun to pass tells us that people have a right not to be subjected to any form of violence from either public or private sources, we have a right not to be subjected to torture in any manner, whether physical or psychological. These rights cannot just be wished away when we want to. They cannot just be ignored especially when our tiny minds tell us that women are weak and it is our god given duty to discipline them. Were we passing a Law that we did not intend to be bound by or because it is a woman getting beat up and humiliated that is a small matter?

I am not as angry at the strippers as I am at the people online either on facebook. Twitter, various blogs and on you tube who keep sharing this video. I have made a choice not to watch that clip but I cannot help but follow the debates around it. I am left wondering, what if it was your sister, your mother or your daughter? Would you click that share button as fast as you just did on this particular clip? Don’t you see you have participated in the abuse of a woman? What have you just done to her potential as a person? You my friends are enablers of sexual gender based violence. You have given audience to perpetrators and made them feel victorious in their heinous act.

The statistics on Gender based violence in Kenya are worrying, and as the citizenry we must come out strongly to say no to GBV of any form. We must insist on the arrest and prosecution of perpetrators and the Law must act as a deterrent to this kind of crude and uncouth behavior. 



 


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9 comments:

  1. Aqua, this is a serious issue that needs people to show their angst by not watching and not sharing this appalling video. I too have chosen not to watch my fellow woman stripped in the name of ambiguous African values yet before the white man invaded our shores we were free to walk bare chested as our breasts swung up down and sideways without anyone 'feeling aroused'. The objectification of any woman to the point where she just has to be undressed coz she is provocatively dressed shows the sexual frustration and cheap thrills these silly men seek. I am sure they must have 'coped a feel' Its sad. Moral of the story stop sharing the video... have some semblance of dignity towards fellow human beings!
    Amy

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    1. Standing ovation dear. it is wrong on so many levels.

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  2. Nice piece...but the sad thing is...we are quick to make laws but implementing them is a major problem!!!

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    1. Rhoda that is the sad realitythere is simply no goodwill on implementation especially if the issues touch on women

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  3. Have also read your article but noted women are there own enemies coz guess you are a lady.
    -I must admit I watched full video and re-watched it but never shared it yeah....am not guilty and never be guilty.
    -The act is silly and awfully even in the eyes of the devil, dignified people condemn it.
    -Your article is clueless and more of a narration with vengeful tone and offers no solutions learnt neither way forward, just frowning like a mad woman.
    -Why- The lady and the touts were all wrong deserves condemnation in equal measure, The lady was not only in-descent but also abusive, the men were not only arrogant but also retrogressive in act.

    -As a father can pray and work hard to bring up my good girls best i can yeah, we are african we love culture, we protect culture, we love decency,love morals we cherish dignity but afew of our ladies loves otherwise and the results as rogue as what we witnessed, you are asking how is it my busines somes ones dressing code in society then will ask why frown when same women sleeps with adog for money...........Lets teach each other morals, abide by morals........practice makes perfect yeah lady

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    1. lol what morals? The colonial white mans morals? whose culture died in the victorian era or the African morals, where we dressed in hides,skin and walked around with exposed private areas without care. And equally every Kenyan has a right to dress in whatever they choose, its a secular nation. if you want government to control your morals, cause your a child that still needs moral training go to theocratic countries. Am sure Saudi Arabia and ISIS will welcome you with open arms.Where rapist are forced to marry their victims. Equally morality is never static from one person to the other in a secular country, that's why we have rights and freedoms from person to person. This morality crap Africans use is the reason why we are ignorant and behave like wild animals,to the point we allow corruption to flourish and poverty.If our morality is harming another human being and in the process justifying it just because your angry or repulsed(yet no one has been killed,bullied or stolen from), instead of minding your own business and life,then we qualify to be called a lawless country with no bright future.

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  4. thank you for your comment. I must disagree with you politely, whether the lady was abusive or indecent does not justify the inhumane act she was and continues to be subjected to.

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  5. the mother of all problems in this our city is unemployment..if everybody was busy, nobody would be noticing people's dressing

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    1. that is part of the bigger problem I agree. the bigger problem being how women are viewed in the society. i am sure there in the crowd were some gainfully employed men who to their time to rip off a piece of cloth before they rushed to work.
      unemployment as a whole should be checked

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